Gifts & Guest Notes — Kojo and Boatema

With love and gratitude

Gifts & Guest Notes

Your presence is the gift we are most looking forward to. If you would like to do more, here is how.

On gifts

A gift of money, if you wish

Many of you have kindly asked what we need. As we are beginning our home together — and as many of our guests are travelling from far — we have chosen not to receive physical gifts. A monetary gift is the only kind we are able to accept, and it will go directly towards building our first home together.

Please know this is offered only as guidance, never as an expectation. There is absolutely no obligation. If you choose to give nothing at all, you are still every bit as welcome, and your prayers and presence mean more to us than anything that could be wrapped.

Details for sending a gift will be shared here soon.

Evening celebration with a live band

A quiet request

An adults-only celebration

We adore the little ones in our families, and it was not an easy decision: our three days of celebration are for adults only. The evenings run late, the music is loud, and we would love for the parents among you to have a proper night off.

The only exceptions are the children in our wedding party. We hope this gives you plenty of notice to arrange care, and we promise to share every photograph so the children can see how beautiful it all was.

Thank you for understanding, and for celebrating with us.